A couple months ago I found myself at large, relaxed Shabbat lunch filled with about 15 people, half of whom were new to me. I eventually wandered my way into a conversation with two young women where we spoke about our careers, their dating lives, and my marriage. One of them had recently started dating a medical student and was trying to wrap her head around his education, so I began explaining the detailed process of becoming a doctor - not just getting the MD with your medical school diploma, but the training that follows. After what ended up being a rather long explanation, she said with eyes wide: "Wow, I bet your husband wouldn't be able to describe your career training so well!"
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In my last post I shared an overview of a single week in our home and explored the ways in which both our lives tend to revolve around J's schedule. Today, I'm going to dive a little deeper into "Call," "Post-call," what it means for J in his general surgery program, and how it differs from those in other surgical residency programs like orthopedics, ENT, and plastics.
In preparing this blog post I reached out to other spouses of surgeons and surgical residents to ask them what call was like for their partners throughout residency. The answers were insightful, eye-opening, and far more varied than I was anticipating. They incited strong feelings of solidarity alongside plenty of head-shaking. They reminded us all of the ways our partner's schedules seem to defy the arbitrary distinctions in calendars and dates. And they revealed some of the flaws in the overall surgical education system, flaws which I hope to explore with more research (and not just gut reactions) in the coming months. |
AuthorNashira is a music teacher and proud Small-Town Jew who, after surthriving six years in Brooklyn for her husband's surgical residency, is finally back in Wisconsin where she belongs! At least until the end of the two-year surgical fellowship, that is. It's a wild ride, and she's ready to tell you all about it! Archives
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